Taboo To Pay Attention To In Conversation Etiquette

Basic requirements for conversation etiquette

It is an important tool to express thoughts and feelings and the main means of interpersonal communication.

In interpersonal relations, "courtesy and reciprocity" plays a very prominent role.

Conversation etiquette taboo

In the course of the talks, if there is no urgent matter, no phone calls or phone calls, if you can turn off your cell phone while the other party is on the phone, then it is particularly important to respect the other party or the talks.

Don't hurt your words, don't be unreasonable.

Unable to look around, absent minded.

He tilted his head, shook his head, shook his leg, turned his pen in his hands, and gripped his hands with his hands.

Don't ask too personal questions, such as asking women's age, whether they are married or not, which is very impolite.

Don't talk loudly in public places, or talk in your own way. You should take care of the conversation and thinking of the people around you.

Avoid talking about what the other person knows nothing and is not interested in it.

Avoid such topics as illness, death, calamity and other unpleasant things, so as not to affect mood and atmosphere.

Avoid being arrogant, opinionated, arrogant and boast in social occasions.

Avoid talking with people when you look left and right.

It is easy to hurt people and offend people by avoiding being angry or complaining or accusing others.

We must avoid gossip, pornography, and meat phrases hanging together at the mouth.

Don't dance when you talk.

Avoid eating odorous foods such as onion and garlic before talking.

Do not spread small news or bad news;

Do not speak ill of colleagues, leaders, peers and friends behind their backs.

Don't pick on others.

In the process of conversation, if you always criticize others' faults, you will make the other party in a bad mood, which is not conducive to the further development of the conversation.

We should think positively and understand each other's thoughts and feelings correctly.

Don't talk big.

Conversation is about two-way communication. Don't just talk about yourself and don't give others the chance to speak.

Don't be cold.

No matter whether the topic of conversation is related to yourself or whether you are interested in it, you should enthusiastically invest in it and cooperate with others.

Don't interrupt.

Don't interrupt to interrupt others.

Even if you want to express your personal opinions or make supplements, you must wait until the other person has finished speaking, or ask for permission from the other party.

Don't delay too long.

Good conversation should be paid attention to.

Conversation in general situations is best to end in less than 30 minutes, the longest can not exceed 1 hours.

Don't be too modest.

When praised, you can tell your happy mood to each other directly, better than being modest.

One of the best ways to win a friend is to help him when he needs help.

The most rewarding way to win friends with a spirit of helping others is to be kind to a naturally timid and dreary person.

When you help a person feel comfortable, he will be grateful to you, so he will be happy to be your friend.