Never Risk Anything You Can'T Do With Friends.

Each one of us can talk with friends and complain about the dissatisfaction we encounter in life and work. Sometimes, the resonance of complaints may also narrow the distance between ourselves and strangers.

But the one or two sentence is enough, everyone has to constantly face all kinds of difficulties in life, and constantly complaining in conversation will only make communication dull and make you change.

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When others express their opinions, you should not only listen to other people's opinions, but also lead to repetition of ideas, shift of topics, and waste of both time.

And when someone asks you for your opinion, you can give the answer without thinking. Let's make a great deal of emotion. If there is no substance, we should first think it over carefully and tell the other person, "well, please give me some time to think about it."

It also shows that you are serious about your communication, rather than just dealing with it.

Even if you are a master of multipurpose, do not browse the web, watch TV, brush micro-blog, chat WeChat, update the to-do list in the impression notes while you are talking with others, and don't even eat when you are talking on the phone, whether or not the other side is speaking out, this is a very annoying behavior. Respect is the most essential element of communication.

If there is really no time, it is better to tell the other person in a sincere way, another time or in a nutshell.

With loved ones, lovers

My mind is always thinking about work.

Do you think they really don't know? No, they can feel it.

In fact, listening attentively and talking attentively is also a basic love.

Seeing a colleague dressed up today, TA himself said, "do I look bad today?" when you praised her honestly, she said, "I just dressed casually at the last minute."

Do you have another feeling of disgust at this time? Therefore, do not be hypocritical humility, in exchange for the sympathy of others.

When praised and praised by others, it is normal to say "thank you" generously.

If you praise yourself after being praised, you will get the other person to rack your brains and say more praise to you.

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Forget it without saying it, or don't interrupt when someone says half way, so you often miss the best part of the conversation, and you also need to tell the other person that you respect TA.

The best encouragement to communicate with others is to trust each other and let them know your concern.

When you see others' virtues and virtues, express your appreciation without stingy expression, hear the misfortune and pain, and don't forget to convey hope to each other.

Sometimes their ideas may be temporarily unpopular, so they cater for others.

This does not really change your mind. Others are still not you, but they will make themselves less confident.

As long as your thoughts and practices do not harm anyone, stick to it. If you can find pleasure, stick to yourself.

Life is your own, not to please others, and you are unique.